Understanding &amp; Managing the Mental Load in Relationships: A Relationship Therapist in New York’s Perspective</span>

Understanding & Managing the Mental Load in Relationships: A Relationship Therapist in New York’s Perspective

If you're carrying the invisible weight of remembering, organizing, and managing everything at home, you might be experiencing the mental load. And it can lead to resentment, burnout, and feeling alone in your relationship. This blog explores why the mental load shows up, how to communicate about it, and tools like Fair Play to help you share responsibilities more fairly and intentionally. Therapy in New York can provide guidance and support, helping you navigate these dynamics, set boundaries, and build a more balanced, fulfilling relationship.

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Overanalyzing, People-Pleasing, and the Fawn Response: How to Reclaim Your Energy

Overanalyzing, People-Pleasing, and the Fawn Response: How to Reclaim Your Energy

If you’re exhausted from overthinking, worrying you upset someone, or constantly trying to keep the peace, this post is for you. Learn how fawning develops, why it’s tied to attachment patterns, and how relationship therapy and attachment therapy in New York can help you reclaim your energy, tolerate stress, and build healthier relationships.

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If I Could Talk to My Picker

If I Could Talk to My Picker

If you’ve ever said, “My picker is broken,” this post explains why and what’s really happening in your brain when it comes to attraction and attachment. Learn how your attachment style, nervous system, and past experiences shape who you date, and how attachment therapy in New York can help you build healthy relationships and ease relationship anxiety.

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3 Hidden Signs of the Fawn Trauma Response (and How Therapy in New York Can Help)

3 Hidden Signs of the Fawn Trauma Response (and How Therapy in New York Can Help)

Many people think of trauma responses as fight, flight, or freeze. But there’s another response we don’t talk about enough: the fawn response. Fawning often looks like people-pleasing, chronic self-doubt, or prioritizing everyone else’s needs over your own. While these behaviors may have once helped you feel safe, they can lead to burnout, anxiety, and struggles in relationships. The good news is, with therapy, these patterns can shift. In this post, I’ll share three hidden signs of the fawn response and how attachment-based, psychodynamic therapy can help you create healthier, more secure relationships.

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4 Simple Shortcuts to Make Up After a Fight

4 Simple Shortcuts to Make Up After a Fight

Fights happen in every relationship, but how you repair afterward matters most. Learn 4 practical strategies to reconnect, reduce tension, and strengthen your relationship. Explore how relationship therapy, psychodynamic approaches, and attachment-based therapy in New York can help couples manage conflict and build more secure, fulfilling relationships.

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From Heartbreak to Hope: Navigating Life After Your Breakup

From Heartbreak to Hope: Navigating Life After Your Breakup

Breakups can leave you feeling lost, anxious, and uncertain about the future. If you’re struggling with relationship loss, heartbreak, or attachment challenges, therapy can help. Using psychodynamic and attachment-based approaches in New York, I help clients process emotions, manage triggers, and build healthier relationships while rediscovering their sense of self.

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